I had an issue sunday with this, and i received a reply about hooking up the three wires from the t-harness. that got me alot further!
Tonight I hooked up the additional 3 wires from the t-harness and was able to program the unit with the keys. the blue red led flashed 10 times, then the blue led comes on by itself for a second or so then goes off. no more activity. I retried this maybe 5 times. I assumed I had an issue with the Can Bus wires, so I disconnected them verified the colors and remade new connections. same result.
Also once it programs (doors lock and unlock and lights flash) when I turn the key off and remove it, the radio and dash lights stay on even after closing door and waiting a while. I assume this is a symtom.