I have everything woking remote start, all doors and trunk. But i can not figure out how to get the parking lights to work while the vehicle is remote started or in turbo mode. The lights flash when locking/unlocking like normal but thats it. they wont come on otherwise. i have it connected to a relay to reverse the polarity from (-) to (+) with 86 being connected to the pink A12 wire, 30 connected to the "parking light wire (red/blue) at drivers kick panel and 87 and 85 to 12V constant. so i am confused. i used the guide 78031 for the relay and 33131 for the T-Harness install.